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TV-141 Season, Drama, Family, Romance, 2026

Malcolm is a pastor and recently widowed dad of three. Lori is freshly divorced with two teens. Their families once did everything together, but now Malcolm and Lori must navigate their newly minted singledom, parenthood and the complexities of Malcolm being a modern-day pastor. Is this the beginning of a love story? It’s not like that. Or is it?

Creators: Ian Deitchman, Kristin Robinson
Starring: Scott Foley, Erinn Hayes, J.R. Ramirez, Leven Miranda, Cassidy Paul, Cary Christopher, Caleb Baumann, Liv Lindell

MEET THE CAST

Scott Foley

Scott Foley

Pastor Malcolm Jeffries

Malcolm felt called to his faith at a young age. He met his wife Jenny at Grace Community Church and has led that congregation for years. Since Jenny's sudden passing, Malcolm has felt unmoored - as a grieving husband, as a doting father and as a pastor. Lori, his wife's best friend, has been his rock through it all. But is Malcolm catching romantic feelings for her? It's not like that. Or is it?

Erinn Hayes

Lori Soto

Lori is a loving mother of two and a PR executive who is fresh on the heels of divorce. She pours her energy into her children and her work to avoid thinking too much about her new single life or the loss of her best friend, Jenny. Over her own summer of change, Lori has grown close to Malcolm, as they have leaned on each other to create a sense of normalcy for themselves and their children.

J.R. Ramirez

David Soto

David is Lori's accomplished, ambitious and emotionally insecure ex-husband. Self-described as a "grass is always greener kind of guy," David worries that his long-brewing decision to leave his wife and kids might have been impulsive, especially since he pulled the trigger shortly after Jenny passed away. A devoted father with a good heart, David's trying to figure out what he really wants for himself.

Leven Miranda

Flora Jeffries

Flora is Malcolm's oldest child (15). A sensitive soul, Flora has become withdrawn, questioning her own faith since her mother passed away. Over the season she turns to journaling and music to channel her grief. Along the way she finds solace, companionship and possibly something more with Lori's son, Merritt.

Cassidy Paul

Penelope Jeffries

Penelope is Malcolm's middle child (13). She is a "girly girl" who's reveling in her new position in the popular clique, a shift at school that is a direct result of the grief she is and isn't processing. She no longer feels close to Casey, her childhood best friend, whom she started to pull away from after the death of her mother.

Cary Christopher

Justin Jeffries

Justin is Malcolm's youngest child (9). Dubbed "dad's good little boy" by his sisters, Justin is the peacekeeping, good-hearted center of the family, and the most devout of the Jeffries children. At school he has become the target of a bully. At home he finds solace in cooking which is also how he stays connected to his late mother.

Caleb Baumann

Merritt Soto

Merrit is Lori and David's oldest child (16). Athletic and intense, he is a high school wrestler who is struggling deeply with his parents' recent divorce. On the outside he remains stoic, in part to protect his younger sister, but on the inside, he longs for someone to understand just how much he's hurting.

Liv Lindell

Casey Soto

Casey is Lori and David's daughter (13). A bright and funny young woman, Casey is also a bit of a tomboy who, despite social pressure, is determined to stay true to herself. She is weathering her parent's divorce a little better than her brother, but she struggles with the fact that Penelope ghosted her over the summer.

BEHIND THE SCENES

The Heart of the Story

The Heart of the Story

A look behind the scenes at the making of 'It's Not Like That'.

Meet the Family

Meet the Family

Getting to know the cast and characters of the series.

Finding Faith

Finding Faith

Exploring the themes of faith and redemption in the show.

Moments of Grace

Moments of Grace

Capturing the emotional core of the series.

RESOURCES

Faith and Grief

Faith and Grief

ft. Pastors Faith Eury Cho & Chris Durso What happens to faith when things get hard? An honest conversation about faith in the middle of loss.

The Complexities of Life & Ministry

The Complexities of Life & Ministry

ft. Pastor Jonathan Pitts What does it look like to lead a church while grieving? Exploring the tension between ministry and personal loss.

It's Not Like That: Navigating Change, Grief, and Grace With God

In this eight-lesson Bible reading plan, you’ll explore themes from each episode of “It’s Not Like That.” These lessons include topics like grief, grace, taking risks and more.

Family Resource Guide

How to talk to your kids about their mental health from The Kids Mental Health Foundation.

The Kids Mental Health Foundation

The Kids Mental Health Foundation

Wonder Project's "It's Not Like That" has partnered with The Kids Mental Health Foundation to provide free expert-created resources that help families start conversations about the topics explored in the show. Visit their dedicated page for the discussion guide, resources, and more.

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